Far too many times fit and able parents lose time at the hands of family courts — lawyers — third party beneficiaries — sold out ethics and weaponized money.
A far too familiar scenario that plays out for many parents comes in the form of scorched earth tactics, subjecting them to a litany of unethical actions and stunts, designed to minimize — and in many cases erase — parenting time while targeting a parents resources. In this way disagreements in custody turn into battles, whereby nobody wins and the child in the middle loses every time.
Source: EVERYONE has an expiration date with a Narcissist and your replacement has been waiting in the wings!! A Narcissist does NOT move on to a healthy relationship – they just move over to another person to objectify and abuse.
For two weeks prior to Facebook’s IPO a stockbroker friend of mine was uncharacteristically unavailable. When I finally got hold of him he apologized: “Every guy I know –and many I don’t, but who claim they know me— has called to get in on FacebookFB +0.31%. I love what I do unless it involves figuring out who alleged grade school buddies are…”
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The following is an excerpt from Zari Ballard’s book Stop Spinning, Start Breathing:
At that grandiose point that we realize that our partner is a narcissist/sociopath, we can also assume that we’ve been his/her enabler for a very long time. Our codependency to the narcissist and to the relationship drama itself has almost has as much to do with our allowing it as it does with the narcissist’s manipulation. And while this fact may not be an easy pill to swallow, accepting it and vowing to undo it becomes a giant step forward in our quest to mentally break free from this very toxic individual.
The truth of the matter is – and this applies to any situation where we get that uncomfortable feeling – whatever we allow is what will continue. If we allow the narcissist to disappear and reappear…to give us the deafening silent…
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- Most enablers likely act out of weakness rather than malice. However, this doesn’t excuse them. That’s because enablers have a lot of power. The abuser relies upon them not to back up the target. Before any attacks begin, a morally disordered person will carefully plan the battle. This can take months to even years before direct hits are launched.
- Warfare begins only if it’s clear that there’s an excellent chance of decimating a target. If there’s a solid support system, the abuser won’t make a move. This means the enablers are the variable, which can either make or break a plan. The narcissist knows this, which is why so much effort is put into creating chaos and confusion. This makes it easier for the enablers to rationalize their position. They may even begin to believe the target is getting the treatment she deserves, and that she did something to warrant…
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