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It is very hard to stop expecting the narcissist to act like a normal human being. The victim invariably ends up astonished at the lies and vindictiveness of the N.
During the relationship he was cruel, a pathological liar, unfaithful, gas lighted, manipulated and raged, but he always came back begging for one last second chance. You knew deep down he really loved you and sooner or later he was going to realize it too. He was just damaged from some previous relationship, or his dysfunctional upbringing; you knew him better than anyone, you knew that sweet innocent little boy who just needs to be loved and nurtured was buried inside there somewhere. You saw him when you first met and glimpses of him ever since. He is just afraid to be vulnerable and the more in love with you he grows the more afraid he becomes. That’s why after…
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My last post appears to have stimulated a lot of debate not only on here but on other forums too. I know that differentiation of alienation is a contentious subject for some, particulary parents who have been rejected wholesale and who no longer see their children. For practioners however, this is magic key that allows us to get closer to the knots and tangles that created the dynamic that caused rejection in the first place and it is the door through which we discover whether a child’s rejection is caused by something other than the divorce and separation process itself, or something altogether darker and more problematic.
There is so much to write about alienation and estrangement patterns in families that whilst I plough on towards the finishing line for the handbook, more and more information understanding and strategic thinking bubbles up. Every time we work with a family we…
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Το Σύνδρομο Γονικής Αποξένωσης ή Αλλοτρίωσης είναι φαινόμενο που παρατηρείται σε παιδιά τα οποία δεν επιθυμούν επαφή με κάποιον από τους δύο γονείς. Αυτό εμφανίζεται κυρίως σε παιδιά χωρισμένων
Στις αρχές του 1970, όταν τα διαζύγια βρισκόταν σε υψηλούς βαθμούς στον δυτικό κόσμο, ο Gardner ερεύνησε βαθιά το θέμα των επιπτώσεων στα παιδιά των διαζυγίων.
Δεν ήταν εύκολο να εξηγηθούν φαινόμενα όπου το παιδί στρεφόταν εναντίον του γονέα που δεν είχε την επιμέλεια δίχως λόγο. Αυτό μπορούσε να συμβεί σε οποιαδήποτε ηλικία. Δεν ήταν απλή συκοφαντική δυσφήμιση του άλλου γονέα, δεν ήταν απλή πλύση εγκεφάλου του παιδιού, δεν ήταν απλό ψυχολογικό του πρόβλημα. Κάτι το διαφορετικό, το ανεξήγητο συνέβαινε.
Ήταν φόβος; Ήταν ψυχιατρικό φαινόμενο; Είχε σχέση με δικαστικές αποφάσεις; Είχε σχέση με την ψυχολογία, τις μεθόδους και την ψυχική κατάσταση του γονέα με τον οποίο μένει το παιδί; Μήπως όλα αυτά;
Πρώτος μίλησε γ΄αυτό ο Gardner (PAS : Parental…
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When the parents divorced several years later, the trial court approved their agreed parenting plan designating Mother as Child’s primary residential parent and dividing parenting time equally between the parties. The parenting plan further provided strict requirements for managing Child’s diet consistent with Child’s medical condition.
A few years after the divorce, Father petitioned to modify the parenting plan to designate him as the primary residential parent and increase his parenting time from 182.5 days to 265 days per year. The proof showed Mother was non-compliant with Child’s medical needs. Specifically, Mother did not believe Child suffered from the diagnosed neurological disorder or, if Child did have the condition, Mother believed it could be resolved through prayer. Proof further showed Mother…
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